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 <ul>
 <li>Mary Clark, In Search of Human Nature</li>
-<li>J. Heath [from MarionÃ?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?Â¢s lecture on 11/3]</li>
+<li>J. Heath [from MarionÃ??Ã?Â¢Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¬Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¢s lecture on 11/3]</li>
 <li>Field of Primatology - [http://www.teach12.com/store/professor.asp?ID=205 Barbara J. King], The College of William and Mary has done related work on bonabo chimps</li>
 <li>Frances Collins, National Human Genome Research Institute - [http://www.amazon.com/Language-God-Scientist-Presents-Evidence/dp/0743286391/sr=8-1/qid=1162688445/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Language of God], 2006</li>
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 <li>Our desire to get our physical and psychological needs met is the basis for our actions.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Key Differentiations Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢??  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
+<li>Key Differentiations Ã??Ã?Â¢Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¬Ã?Â¢??  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
 <li>Burton - Needs theory</li>
 <li>Abraham Maslow, [http://www.amazon.com/Toward-Psychology-Being-Abraham-Maslow/dp/0471293091/sr=1-1/qid=1162689120/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Toward a Psychology of Being, 3rd Edition], 1998</li>
-<li>Manfred Neef Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?? needs-based economy</li>
+<li>Manfred Neef Ã??Ã?Â¢Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¬Ã?Â¢?? needs-based economy</li>
 <li>Ghandi</li>
 </ul>
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 <li>Field of Nueroscience - Candace Pert - [http://www.amazon.com/Molecules-Emotion-Science-Mind-Body-Medicine/dp/0684846349/sr=1-2/qid=1162689644/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books The Molecules of Emotion], 1999</li>
 <li>The Budhha</li>
-<li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?? Creating True Peace</li>
+<li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism Ã??Ã?Â¢Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¬Ã?Â¢?? Creating True Peace</li>
 <li>Field of Cognitive Neuroscience [http://www.amazon.com/Emotion-Consciousness-Lisa-Feldman-Barrett/dp/159385188X/sr=1-11/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_11/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Emotion and Consciousness] by Lisa Feldman Barrett, Paula M. Niedenthal, and Piotr Winkielman</li>
 <li>Anthony Hatzimoysis [http://www.amazon.com/Philosophy-Emotions-Royal-Institute-Supplements/dp/0521537347/sr=1-10/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_10/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Philosophy and the Emotions, 2003]</li>
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 <li>Bernard Weiner, [http://www.amazon.com/Attributional-Motivation-Emotion-Springer-Psychology/dp/038796312X/sr=1-1/qid=1162689523/ref=sr_1_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books An Attributional Theory of Motivation and Emotion]. </li>
 </ul>
-<li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneÃ?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?Â¢s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>
+<li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneÃ??Ã?Â¢Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¬Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¢s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Daniel Goldman Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?? emotional flooding & physiological testing which might show that, + as we engage our neocortex, the physiology begins to change?</li>
+<li>Daniel Goldman Ã??Ã?Â¢Ã?Â¢?Ã?Â¬Ã?Â¢?? emotional flooding & physiological testing which might show that, + as we engage our neocortex, the physiology begins to change?</li>
 </ul>
 </ol>

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 trocbocn
 '''November Meeting''' Friday, November 3, 2006 at 3 PM EST (12 Noon PST)
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 <ul>
 <li>Mary Clark, In Search of Human Nature</li>
-<li>J. Heath [from MarionÃ¢â?¬â?¢s lecture on 11/3]</li>
+<li>J. Heath [from MarionÃ?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?Â¢s lecture on 11/3]</li>
 <li>Field of Primatology - [http://www.teach12.com/store/professor.asp?ID=205 Barbara J. King], The College of William and Mary has done related work on bonabo chimps</li>
 <li>Frances Collins, National Human Genome Research Institute - [http://www.amazon.com/Language-God-Scientist-Presents-Evidence/dp/0743286391/sr=8-1/qid=1162688445/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Language of God], 2006</li>
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 <li>Our desire to get our physical and psychological needs met is the basis for our actions.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Key Differentiations Ã¢â?¬â??  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
+<li>Key Differentiations Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢??  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
 <li>Burton - Needs theory</li>
 <li>Abraham Maslow, [http://www.amazon.com/Toward-Psychology-Being-Abraham-Maslow/dp/0471293091/sr=1-1/qid=1162689120/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Toward a Psychology of Being, 3rd Edition], 1998</li>
-<li>Manfred Neef Ã¢â?¬â?? needs-based economy</li>
+<li>Manfred Neef Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?? needs-based economy</li>
 <li>Ghandi</li>
 </ul>
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 <li>Field of Nueroscience - Candace Pert - [http://www.amazon.com/Molecules-Emotion-Science-Mind-Body-Medicine/dp/0684846349/sr=1-2/qid=1162689644/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books The Molecules of Emotion], 1999</li>
 <li>The Budhha</li>
-<li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism Ã¢â?¬â?? Creating True Peace</li>
+<li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?? Creating True Peace</li>
 <li>Field of Cognitive Neuroscience [http://www.amazon.com/Emotion-Consciousness-Lisa-Feldman-Barrett/dp/159385188X/sr=1-11/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_11/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Emotion and Consciousness] by Lisa Feldman Barrett, Paula M. Niedenthal, and Piotr Winkielman</li>
 <li>Anthony Hatzimoysis [http://www.amazon.com/Philosophy-Emotions-Royal-Institute-Supplements/dp/0521537347/sr=1-10/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_10/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Philosophy and the Emotions, 2003]</li>
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 <li>Bernard Weiner, [http://www.amazon.com/Attributional-Motivation-Emotion-Springer-Psychology/dp/038796312X/sr=1-1/qid=1162689523/ref=sr_1_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books An Attributional Theory of Motivation and Emotion]. </li>
 </ul>
-<li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneÃ¢â?¬â?¢s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>
+<li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneÃ?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?Â¢s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Daniel Goldman Ã¢â?¬â?? emotional flooding & physiological testing which might show that, + as we engage our neocortex, the physiology begins to change?</li>
+<li>Daniel Goldman Ã?Â¢Ã¢?Â¬Ã¢?? emotional flooding & physiological testing which might show that, + as we engage our neocortex, the physiology begins to change?</li>
 </ul>
 </ol>

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 '''November Meeting''' Friday, November 3, 2006 at 3 PM EST (12 Noon PST)
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 <ul>
 <li>Mary Clark, In Search of Human Nature</li>
-<li>J. Heath [from Marionâ€™s lecture on 11/3]</li>
+<li>J. Heath [from MarionÃ¢â?¬â?¢s lecture on 11/3]</li>
 <li>Field of Primatology - [http://www.teach12.com/store/professor.asp?ID=205 Barbara J. King], The College of William and Mary has done related work on bonabo chimps</li>
 <li>Frances Collins, National Human Genome Research Institute - [http://www.amazon.com/Language-God-Scientist-Presents-Evidence/dp/0743286391/sr=8-1/qid=1162688445/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Language of God], 2006</li>
@@ Line 27: / Line 28: @@
 <li>Our desire to get our physical and psychological needs met is the basis for our actions.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Key Differentiations â€“  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
+<li>Key Differentiations Ã¢â?¬â??  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
 <li>Burton - Needs theory</li>
 <li>Abraham Maslow, [http://www.amazon.com/Toward-Psychology-Being-Abraham-Maslow/dp/0471293091/sr=1-1/qid=1162689120/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Toward a Psychology of Being, 3rd Edition], 1998</li>
-<li>Manfred Neef â€“ needs-based economy</li>
+<li>Manfred Neef Ã¢â?¬â?? needs-based economy</li>
 <li>Ghandi</li>
 </ul>
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 <li>Field of Nueroscience - Candace Pert - [http://www.amazon.com/Molecules-Emotion-Science-Mind-Body-Medicine/dp/0684846349/sr=1-2/qid=1162689644/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books The Molecules of Emotion], 1999</li>
 <li>The Budhha</li>
-<li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism â€“ Creating True Peace</li>
+<li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism Ã¢â?¬â?? Creating True Peace</li>
 <li>Field of Cognitive Neuroscience [http://www.amazon.com/Emotion-Consciousness-Lisa-Feldman-Barrett/dp/159385188X/sr=1-11/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_11/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Emotion and Consciousness] by Lisa Feldman Barrett, Paula M. Niedenthal, and Piotr Winkielman</li>
 <li>Anthony Hatzimoysis [http://www.amazon.com/Philosophy-Emotions-Royal-Institute-Supplements/dp/0521537347/sr=1-10/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_10/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Philosophy and the Emotions, 2003]</li>
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 <li>Bernard Weiner, [http://www.amazon.com/Attributional-Motivation-Emotion-Springer-Psychology/dp/038796312X/sr=1-1/qid=1162689523/ref=sr_1_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books An Attributional Theory of Motivation and Emotion]. </li>
 </ul>
-<li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneâ€™s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>
+<li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneÃ¢â?¬â?¢s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Daniel Goldman â€“ emotional flooding & physiological testing which might show that, + as we engage our neocortex, the physiology begins to change?</li>
+<li>Daniel Goldman Ã¢â?¬â?? emotional flooding & physiological testing which might show that, + as we engage our neocortex, the physiology begins to change?</li>
 </ul>
 </ol>

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 <li>Key Differentiations â€“  NVC Trainer Certification Package</li>
 <li>Burton - Needs theory</li>
-<li>Maslowâ€™s Hierarchy of Needs, Manfred</li>
+<li>Abraham Maslow, [http://www.amazon.com/Toward-Psychology-Being-Abraham-Maslow/dp/0471293091/sr=1-1/qid=1162689120/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Toward a Psychology of Being, 3rd Edition], 1998</li>
-<li>Neef â€“ needs-based economy
+<li>Manfred Neef â€“ needs-based economy</li>
 <li>Ghandi</li>
 </ul>
 <li>Our emotions stem from our needs. When our needs are being met, we feel positive emotions, when our needs are not being met, we feel negative emotions.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Field of Nueroscience - Candace Pert - The Molecules of Emotion</li>
+<li>Field of Nueroscience - Candace Pert - [http://www.amazon.com/Molecules-Emotion-Science-Mind-Body-Medicine/dp/0684846349/sr=1-2/qid=1162689644/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books The Molecules of Emotion], 1999</li>
 <li>The Budhha</li>
 <li>Thich Naht Hahn - Active Buddhism â€“ Creating True Peace</li>
 <li>Field of Cognitive Neuroscience [http://www.amazon.com/Emotion-Consciousness-Lisa-Feldman-Barrett/dp/159385188X/sr=1-11/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_11/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Emotion and Consciousness] by Lisa Feldman Barrett, Paula M. Niedenthal, and Piotr Winkielman</li>
 <li>Anthony Hatzimoysis [http://www.amazon.com/Philosophy-Emotions-Royal-Institute-Supplements/dp/0521537347/sr=1-10/qid=1162663860/ref=sr_1_10/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Philosophy and the Emotions, 2003]</li>
-<li>Coate & Roseti - The Power of Human Needs in World Society</li>
+<li>Coate & Roseti - [http://www.amazon.com/Power-Human-Needs-World-Society/dp/1555870910/sr=1-1/qid=1162688589/ref=sr_1_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books The Power of Human Needs in World Society]</li>
 <li>Eisler, Raine, Tomorrows Children: A Blueprint for Education in the 21st Century, The Chalice in the Blade: A Partnership Education.</li>
 </ul>
 <li>Anger is a combination of a feelings mixed with a judgment or blame of others.  Underlying anger is one or a combination of emotions such as fear, disappointment, frustration, resentment.  Is this an assumption about NVC or a general assumption?  In other words, is this an assumption that is necessary to practice NVC?  Maybe the core assumption is "A feeling vocabulary is important to express your experience more fully."  There is an assumption around the need to increase your awareness of feelings and needs. </li>
 <ul>
-<li>Carl Jungâ€™s work</li>
+<li>Carl Jung, [http://www.amazon.com/Basic-Writings-Jung-Modern-Library/dp/067960071X/sr=1-4/qid=1162688774/ref=sr_1_4/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Basic Writings of C.G. Jung], 1993</li>
-<li>Carl Rogers - A Way of Being</li>
+<li>Carl Rogers - [http://www.amazon.com/Way-Being-Carl-Rogers/dp/0395755301/sr=1-2/qid=1162689460/ref=pd_bbs_sr_2/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books A Way of Being]</li>
 </ul>
 <li>Attributing blameworthiness to others is likely to lead us to withhold communication or resources from others, and/or initiate verbal or physical punishment against them.   Anger is the result of a thinking process which implies that the another party should not have done what they did that disappointed, frightened and hurt us.   When I want something I'm not getting.  I'm expecting someone to give something to me.  And by demanding it I will not get what I want.  "When we're angry we're assigning blame."  Connection to shaming, blaming whether to others or to ourselves.</li>
 <ul>
-<li>Attributional theory. </li>
+<li>Bernard Weiner, [http://www.amazon.com/Attributional-Motivation-Emotion-Springer-Psychology/dp/038796312X/sr=1-1/qid=1162689523/ref=sr_1_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books An Attributional Theory of Motivation and Emotion]. </li>
 </ul>
 <li>Verbal and nonverbal negative affect is usually perceived as incompetent communication behavior. We are more likely to be seen as a competent communicator (effective + appropriate) when we express our feelings, explain how those feelings are connected to our needs, and then make clear requests of the person we want to meet our need. Therefore, it is important to increase awareness of oneâ€™s feelings and needs which can be facilitated by developing a literacy (vocabulary) about feelings and needs.</li>

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 <li>J. Heath [from Marionâ€™s lecture on 11/3]</li>
 <li>Field of Primatology - [http://www.teach12.com/store/professor.asp?ID=205 Barbara J. King], The College of William and Mary has done related work on bonabo chimps</li>
-<li>Frances Collins, National Human Genome Research Institute - Language of God, 2006</li>
+<li>Frances Collins, National Human Genome Research Institute - [http://www.amazon.com/Language-God-Scientist-Presents-Evidence/dp/0743286391/sr=8-1/qid=1162688445/ref=pd_bbs_sr_1/102-5023130-2221725?ie=UTF8&s=books Language of God], 2006</li>
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 <li>Our desire to get our physical and psychological needs met is the basis for our actions.</li>

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