Mourning vs. Guilt or self-blame - Revision history

Fremath at 15:01, 16 February 2009

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Fremath: self-forgiveness

2009-02-16T14:55:49Z

self-forgiveness

Fremath at 15:01, 8 February 2009

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Fremath at 14:50, 8 February 2009

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Fremath at 15:31, 23 November 2008

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John Abbe at 15:46, 6 November 2008

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Fremath at 13:52, 2 November 2008

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Fremath: New page: Step 3: The "perpetrator" goes deep inside himself and articulates what he feels ... and his own needs that were not met by his actions. In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as ...

2008-11-02T13:47:02Z

New page: Step 3: The "perpetrator" goes deep inside himself and articulates what he feels ... and his own needs that were not met by his actions. In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as ...

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Step 3: The "perpetrator" goes deep inside himself and articulates what he feels ... and his own needs that were not met by his actions.

In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as mourning, and is fundamentally different from any process that encourages the perpetrator to feel guilt or shame.

- [http://en.nvcwiki.com/index.php/Restorative_justice]

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 "Mourning in NVC is the process of fully connecting with unmet needs and feelings which are generated when we have been less than perfect.  It is an experience of regret, but regret that helps us learn from what we have done without blaming or hating ourselves." - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg
-NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg
+NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret - ibid, p 133
-NVC self-forgiveness: connecting with the need we were trying to meet when we took the action which we now regret. - Marshall B. Rosenberg
+NVC self-forgiveness: connecting with the need we were trying to meet when we took the action which we now regret. - ibid, p 134
-The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion. - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 129, Marshall B. Rosenberg
+The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion. - ibid, p 129

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	NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg		NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg
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		+	NVC self-forgiveness: connecting with the need we were trying to meet when we took the action which we now regret. - Marshall B. Rosenberg

	The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion. - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 129, Marshall B. Rosenberg		The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion. - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 129, Marshall B. Rosenberg

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	"Mourning in NVC is the process of fully connecting with unmet needs and feelings which are generated when we have been less than perfect. It is an experience of regret, but regret that helps us learn from what we have done without blaming or hating ourselves." - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg		"Mourning in NVC is the process of fully connecting with unmet needs and feelings which are generated when we have been less than perfect. It is an experience of regret, but regret that helps us learn from what we have done without blaming or hating ourselves." - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg

−	NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret. -- Marshall B. Rosenberg	+	NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg
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		+	The most important use of NVC may be in developing self-compassion. - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 129, Marshall B. Rosenberg

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	"Mourning in NVC is the process of fully connecting with unmet needs and feelings which are generated when we have been less than perfect. It is an experience of regret, but regret that helps us learn from what we have done without blaming or hating ourselves." - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg		"Mourning in NVC is the process of fully connecting with unmet needs and feelings which are generated when we have been less than perfect. It is an experience of regret, but regret that helps us learn from what we have done without blaming or hating ourselves." - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg
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		+	NVC Mourning: connecting with the feelings and unmet needs stimulated by past actions which we now regret. -- Marshall B. Rosenberg

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	- From [[Restorative justice]]		- From [[Restorative justice]]
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		+	"Mourning in NVC is the process of fully connecting with unmet needs and feelings which are generated when we have been less than perfect. It is an experience of regret, but regret that helps us learn from what we have done without blaming or hating ourselves." - Nonviolent Communication - A Language of Life, 2nd ed., p 133, Marshall B. Rosenberg

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	In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as mourning, and is fundamentally different from any process that encourages the perpetrator to feel guilt or shame."		In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as mourning, and is fundamentally different from any process that encourages the perpetrator to feel guilt or shame."

−	- From 'Restorative ~~Justice': [http://en.nvcwiki.com/index.php/Restorative_justice~~]	+	- From [[Restorative justice]]

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-Step 3: The "perpetrator" goes deep inside himself and articulates what he feels ... and his own needs that were not met by his actions.
+"Step 3: The 'perpetrator' goes deep inside himself and articulates what he feels ... and his own needs that were not met by his actions.
-In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as mourning, and is fundamentally different from any process that encourages the perpetrator to feel guilt or shame.
+In Nonviolent Communication, this is described as mourning, and is fundamentally different from any process that encourages the perpetrator to feel guilt or shame."
-- [http://en.nvcwiki.com/index.php/Restorative_justice]
+- From 'Restorative Justice': [http://en.nvcwiki.com/index.php/Restorative_justice]